We’re used to of it and we don’t even think how irritating it can be to someone. We have mobile in hands all the times , whenever we want to contact someone just click a button and it starts ringing on the other side, no matter where the person is, how much busy , in what condition. We just start calling and calling and calling whether he is our known person or someone lightly familiar . What have you become civilized people? Have some contact ethics please. Before calling someone who is not a friend or someone close to you , take permission via text message to confirm whether the person is free to talk or not, ask him, may i call you? If the person is free he will respond you with an okay text, otherwise let him get free. Why we just jump in people’s personal lives and majority of the times it’s not an urgent call . Please have some ethics, don’t tease, we all are busy in our own routines.
I’m just sitting in a gathering or a serious meeting and a sudden call comes, how are you? And? Whats up? And? . . . . . .
What the hell is that? What can i reply sitting in a gathering where everyone starts looking at me , waiting for me to end up the call?
At least before calling someone, take permission with a text message specially specially when you don’t have a close interaction with that person. And if you don’t follow this ethic ,then please at least let it be a once a while call. If there is no response , it means the person is busy or is not in a condition to attend the call. Try later. Don’t just press the call button, and keep calling until the person receives it.
Please! Technology is supposed to ease lifestyle, let it ease and not make things irritating.
Let’s learn some contact ethics.
May Allah guide us all.