The best among you!!!!



Assalam o alikum warahmatuLLAHI wa barakatuhu!

have you ever noticed???

we are praised by people to whom we are less known as compared to people we are known. (family)

they praise us , and we become happy and start thinking that oohhh! we are very good natured , we are very mannered ones ,we are very good muslims, look everyone who meets us says the same. . .

red light!,, stop for a while!

does our family members praise us the same way as do other people??? 

the answer to this question is ‘no’ usually. and it proves us not to be a best muslim as we think ourselves that we are.

why??? because you are good or bad is tested when you live for sometime with someone, and they observe you in thick and thin.

being good and mannered to class fellows, being good to someone you meet in docter’s clinic, someone at the bus stand or in the bus or anywhere for sometime does not testify  that you are best .

never judge yourself this way, never betray yourself this way!!

because what proves us best is you know what???

it is when our own family members certify our goodness, when they are happy with us. when they don’t have complaints of us. 

And i am not saying it on my own, im saying because my Prophet (Peace and blessings be upon him) said:

“The best of you is he, who is best to his family , and i am the best among you to my family.”

Let’s promise ourselves to be Best muslims!, lets follow Rasool ULLAH (salal lahu alihi wassalam)

Because never we have read about any family member of him complaining about him…

Have you ever read anything like such?? of course not.

why because he was not like us only praised by unknowns , but by known  as well, by the very nearest ones.

Never betray yourself , never judge yourself , your behavior by the comments of those who know not much about you, and never start thinking that your family is mad who ain’t happy with you, when the rest of the world is. Because i believe, you truly become a mannered and a lovely being when your own family members praise you the same as the rest of the world does.

May ALLAH makes us the coolness of the eyes of our family, and make us the true follower of Rasoolullah sallal laho alaihi wasssalam .

Allahumma Ameen


About Binatehawwa

Let's change the world through Piety

Posted on January 17, 2014, in Humanity, Miscellaneous, Muslim Husband, Muslimah Wife, Relations, Relatives. Bookmark the permalink. 4 Comments.

  1. Walaikum assalam warehmatullahi wabarakatuhu!

    ma sha Allah! thats the topic I usually think about. Today I was reading a note that I had saved in my phone long back that no matter how good we are to the people who we meet outside, if we are not good to our family, we are not eligible to be called as Good AT ALL!!

  2. Reblogged this on AbuWhy and commented:
    This topic keeps popping up my mind!
    Food for thought!
    Keep a check on yourself 🙂

  3. Assalam Alikum, all Muslim brothers and sisters must know good things about happy and successful marriage, they should know that what are the rights of each other.


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