Break The Ice This Week (Task#5)

Asssalam o Alikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu!


We are living in 2013 . The age which is called the age of technology . But it is not wrong to say now that

Man has learnt to fly in air like birds,   dive in water like fish But

he has forgotten to live on Earth like a Human.

 The greatest debacle we are facing today is not of water, not of fuel, not of bad economy, not of unemployment . Its is the debacle of the beauty of Relationships the most.

We today are so busy, so busy in our laptops, androids, iphones , that we just don’t care , our mum is greedy  to have a little chit chat with us . Our father waits for long so that we come and tell him which medicine to take now.

But we are we, we have swore not to change our behaviors. 

Let’s break this ice this week!


The only condition we are allowed to disobey Parents is when they ask us to worship other than ALLAH, disobey ALLAH. The only only condition. Otherwise all we have to do is listen and obey! All we have to do is Khidmat  .

Do we actually know the importance of the loving behavior with parents ???

This can either make our Dunyah and Akhirah, or destroy them both.

Choice is Ours.


There was a taba’ee named Owais Qarni (May ALLAH be please with him) . Prophet Sallal laho alaihi wassalam told Abu Baka and Umer Radiallahu anhu before his death, that there is a man of Yeman named Owais, whenever you meet him, request him to make Dua for you. Because his Duas never go unanswered.

Both of them were amazed and asked, what special deed he has made that his Duas never go unanswered??

RasoolULLAH sallal lahu alaihi wassalam said,

He has done such a great service to his mother , that now whenever he raises his hands ALLAH surely answers them.


What are we today??? The picture below says that all.


Alhumdulillah we have learnt last week to avoid shouting, abusive language and lies. So generally with everyone, and specially with Parents , try to work on that task lifetime.

 But there is much much more to do, we are mentioning some major things to start practice from this week, and you are invited to mention other points too using comment block so that we all may work on that.

1. Above all think deeply that ALLAH talked about avoiding shirk, and suddenly after that he talked about dutifulness and Ehsan with parents. So think that how important it is.

2. Give them a whole heart  salaam, and smile daily.

3. Spend time with them, massage them with some oil.

4. If it is not possible daily, then at least on weekends , have lunch or dinner with them and give them some food with your hands.


It is just beyond our imaginations, what are the rewards of being loving to our parents. How the things in life become easy, how success starts kissing our feet when mother and father raise their hands to make Dua for us.

Please! Don’t get late


Task assigned by: Shiza Nasir Bukhari

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Posted on September 27, 2013, in Miscellaneous, Relation with ALLAH. Bookmark the permalink. 12 Comments.

  1. Shiza Nasir Bkhari

    😥 very true.

  2. Allah hamey apney Ma bab ke ankhoon ka thandak banaey Ameen

    • Timeless task sister!
      You know we practice one whole week, to make that task a habit of us.

      One week practice doesn’t mean we will stop after that. We all will continue doing the tasks in sha ALLAH, and this is what is the main theme of SAP.

      • there’s a reason why i said it was timely! r/s between me and my parents are not so close because I don’t like to share things with my family members because i know they won’t have the solutions to my problems. and at times, their advice put me down or stressed me out so since young i prefer to remain quiet and not find faults with them. in the end, we are not really close.

        now, dad is having some health issues. someone advised me to get closer to my dad. but i’m finding this difficult. i know if i don’t, i will face the consequence(if not now, it will be in the hereafer).it’s difficult but i am trying. pray for me! and my dad for his health and for him to remain steadfast in his ‘ibadah.

        • Ameen irum! 🙂
          May you be able to do a best service of your father, in sha ALLAH!
          This is something every young feels today, that his parents don’t understand them.
          Yes we do have a choice not to share our problems with them if we think they can’t help us finding the solution, but when it comes on giving their Haq, and doing their service, it is fardh on us.
          May ALLAH give us all taufeeq to do a best service of our parents.
          Now you will massage your father with oil, and will cut his nails with your own hands today in sha ALLAH 🙂
          Right sister?

  3. [A person once approached the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him and his family) and said: “I have an old father and mother, who due to their attachment towards me, are not keen for me to go to Jihad.”]

    [Hearing this], the Noble Prophet (peace be upon him and his family) said: “(If such is the case then) Stay with your parents for, by the One in whose control lies my soul, their attachment of one day and one night to you is better than one year of Jihad.”

    Biharul Anwar, Volume 74, Page 82

  4. ummm i am trying to do khidmat. But i feel it too less yet, need to improve and do more to make parents and ALLAH happy.
    May ALLAH help us all.


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